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Are You a Law-Abiding Citizen?

February 17, 2026 by Lynne Hoeksema Leave a Comment

Throughout the years, I’ve studied the book of Psalms many times, often with a “read through the Bible in a year” focus.  However, whenever the plan reached Psalm 119, it was likely split up into sections. 

The chapter contains 176 verses! As my current plan was approaching this chapter, I wondered how they would handle it.  Well, we are going to read the entire chapter in one sitting!  Yea…

But here’s the benefit I gleaned from that.  Even knowing that this massive chapter was focused on God’s laws and precepts, I had never felt the entire impact of that until this read-through.

Do you suppose there’s a reason that God intended for this chapter to have the most verses of any chapter in the entire Bible?  No others even come close.

Now I realize there is an interesting structure to this chapter, which I won’t spend time on today, but I want to focus on why I believe there is so much packed into Psalm 119.

While the theme of God’s laws is front and center in this Psalm, it is clearly not the rigid, “grace-less” approach to laws that we see with the Pharisees. 

They identified 613 “thou shalt” and “thou shalt not” laws in the Torah.  What happened to the TEN commandments?  Or the two “laws” Jesus laid out for us?  “Love the Lord your God with all your heart, mind and soul.  And your neighbor as yourself.”

All that to lay the groundwork for why I believe we have such a “hefty” Psalm about laws.

God doesn’t lay down laws to restrict us, or make us anxious about compliance, or heap guilt upon us, or any number of misdirected results.

God’s laws are intended to protect us (mostly from ourselves), guide us, encourage us, and ultimately reveal how deeply he loves us.

The psalmist (possibly David) isn’t telling us what we get if we comply with these laws.  He’s sharing how his life has been shaped by his love of God’s Word.  Doesn’t that completely shift our focus?

Unlike those Pharisees, he’s not suggesting a transaction-based obedience.  He’s giving us his testimony on what loving obedience has produced in his own life.

Let’s look at just a few of the ways our lives can be lived more fully because of what we see in this psalm:

1. Stability in an Unstable World

The psalmist repeatedly connects God’s Word with permanence. While circumstances shift, God’s commands are “firmly fixed.”  Boy, do we need this in today’s world!

Takeaway: Obedience roots us in something that does not move. Not steadiness based on emotions, but foundational steadiness.

Key verses:

v.89 — “Your word, Lord, is eternal; it stands firm in the heavens.”

v.90 — “You established the earth, and it endures.”

2. Wisdom and Discernment

This isn’t arrogance. It’s perspective. When we have God’s wisdom, we will always have more than the world provides.

Takeaway: Scripture sharpens judgment and decision-making.

Key verses:

v.98 — “Wiser than my enemies.”

v.99 — “More insight than my teachers.”

v.100 — “More understanding than the elders.”

v.130 — “The unfolding of your words gives light.”

3. Freedom Through Boundaries

Worth emphasizing again, this is one of Psalm 119’s most countercultural claims: Following God’s commands does not restrict our lives — it enriches them.

Takeaway: God’s boundaries ultimately bring more blessings into our lives.

Key verses:

v.45 — “I will walk about in freedom…”

v.32 — “You enlarge my heart.”

4. Strength in Affliction

The psalmist doesn’t say obedience prevents suffering. He says it sustains him through it. That’s a theme we see over and over again throughout all of scripture.

Takeaway: God’s Word keeps us from massive breakdowns!

Key verses:

v.50 — “Your promise gives me life.”

v.67 — “Before I was afflicted I went astray…”

v.71 — “It was good for me to be afflicted…”

v.92 — “I would have perished in my affliction.”

5. Joy and Delight

This is not begrudging compliance. It is the joy that can only be found when we live squarely within God’s will.

Takeaway: Obedience becomes affection.

Key verses:

v.14 — “I rejoice…”

v.54 — “Your decrees are the theme of my song.”

v.162 — “Like one who finds great spoil.”

6. Deep Peace

Peace here isn’t the absence of trouble — it’s the absence of inner chaos. Isn’t that what we’re all seeking?

Takeaway: Loving God’s law produces steadiness of soul.

Key verse:

v.165 — “Great peace have those who love your law, and nothing can make them stumble.”

What a great sentiment to close with. Personally, I have found that when I truly rest in God’s deep peace, the world around me could be shattering, but I am trusting a good and sovereign God.  That makes all the difference in the world.

I hope this walk through Psalm 119 has stirred within you a desire to rethink whatever laws you might have been attempting to keep, in your own strength.  Take another look at them through the lens of God’s deep and abiding love.  It will change the way you live.

In other words, pay no attention to that Boston Terrier!

For this is the love of God,

that we keep his commandments.

And his commandments are not burdensome.

1 John 5:3

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